Sessions

Couples therapy

A steady space for two people to slow down, listen differently and find a way through what keeps repeating.

Couples therapy gives two people a steady place to slow down, listen differently and understand what keeps happening between them. My role isn’t to take sides or decide who’s right, but to help you both feel heard and find a way forward together.

This can help with

  • Arguments that circle without resolution

  • Feeling distant, lonely or disconnected

  • Rebuilding trust after a rupture

  • Big decisions and transitions, such as moving or becoming parents

  • Separating with care, if that’s the path you choose

What sessions look like

Sessions last 75 minutes, giving each of you time to speak and be understood. We start with one joint session, followed by a short individual conversation with each partner, before settling into a regular rhythm together.

Practical details

Couples sessions are available in person or online. Most couples meet weekly or fortnightly for at least eight sessions. We’ll check in regularly about what’s helping and what you’d like to focus on next.

Iris Calder

Psychotherapy for adults, online and in person. Gentle, unhurried, and on your terms.

Contact

Mon–Thu, 9am–7pm

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© 2026 Iris Calder Psychotherapy

© 2026 Iris Calder Psychotherapy

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